{"id":1280,"date":"2021-04-28T04:51:42","date_gmt":"2021-04-28T08:51:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blogs.ubalt.edu\/welter\/?page_id=1280"},"modified":"2021-06-18T07:44:10","modified_gmt":"2021-06-18T11:44:10","slug":"friends","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/blogs.ubalt.edu\/welter\/poetry-archive\/friends\/","title":{"rendered":"Friends"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-medium is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/blogs.ubalt.edu\/welter\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/1188\/2021\/04\/No-Solicitors-300x225.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1281\" width=\"377\" height=\"283\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.ubalt.edu\/welter\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/1188\/2021\/04\/No-Solicitors-300x225.png 300w, https:\/\/blogs.ubalt.edu\/welter\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/1188\/2021\/04\/No-Solicitors-1024x768.png 1024w, https:\/\/blogs.ubalt.edu\/welter\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/1188\/2021\/04\/No-Solicitors-768x576.png 768w, https:\/\/blogs.ubalt.edu\/welter\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/1188\/2021\/04\/No-Solicitors-1536x1152.png 1536w, https:\/\/blogs.ubalt.edu\/welter\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/1188\/2021\/04\/No-Solicitors-2048x1536.png 2048w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 377px) 100vw, 377px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><span class=\"has-inline-color has-black-color\"><strong>Friends<\/strong><br>Shurouq Ibrahim<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span class=\"has-inline-color has-black-color\">We have become unfamiliar friends, World.<br>Yes, we probably knew each other last year.<br>Perhaps we attended a one-day free yoga class together in German Village.<br>Weren\u2019t you at my wedding?<br>Let us blame it on the year, friend.<br>You are right,<br>We have become long-distance acquaintances<br>because of this social distancing thing.<br>I cannot remember, I do not remember.<br>I have been preoccupied as I am sure you have been.<br>I walk out the door with a mask in hand and an ache in my chest.<br>Not from the virus, but from fear of the virus.<br>I walk, and I see three letters etched in the sidewalk: <em>BLM<\/em>.<br>An ache in the stomach.<br>I see potholes in the middle of the road,<br>that somehow look smaller than they did before.<br>Large flags fly from neighboring houses,<br>houses that seemed to like me before.<br>Signs in windows which seem muddled now.<br>I have never been so overwhelmed by a color before.<br>Red: the color of fire, the color of unforeseeable things to come.<br>It triggers something in me, sending me back to 2016 and that sleepless night,<br>and that uncomfortable morning after, and those anxiety-ridden four years that followed.<br>I am sorry, friend.<br>I will be better, I promise.<br>I am writing more, I am baking more, I am even blogging now.<br>I have a son who I am sure you will meet one day.<br>He was born at the beginning of it all.<br>I worry about his little hands, and what they hold.<br>I am working from home, so call anytime.<br>Not anytime, but any time after 4:00.<br>See, some things remain the same.<br>Some things never change.<br>There is some comfort in that, no?<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator is-style-wide\" \/>\n\n\n\n<p><span class=\"has-inline-color has-dark-gray-color\"><strong>Shurouq Ibrahim<\/strong> is a Palestinian-American poet residing in Ohio. She writes about the taboo in Arab-American culture, mainly mental health, divorce, and domestic violence.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>FriendsShurouq Ibrahim We have become unfamiliar friends, World.Yes, we probably knew each other last year.Perhaps we attended a one-day free yoga class together in German Village.Weren\u2019t you at my wedding?Let <a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/blogs.ubalt.edu\/welter\/poetry-archive\/friends\/\">Continue Reading &rarr;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3221,"featured_media":0,"parent":1261,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"footnotes":""},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.ubalt.edu\/welter\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/1280"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.ubalt.edu\/welter\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.ubalt.edu\/welter\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.ubalt.edu\/welter\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3221"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.ubalt.edu\/welter\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1280"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.ubalt.edu\/welter\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/1280\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1484,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.ubalt.edu\/welter\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/1280\/revisions\/1484"}],"up":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.ubalt.edu\/welter\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/1261"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.ubalt.edu\/welter\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1280"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}